I was in a thinking and writing mood last night. Ever get those moments where you just think of something good to write about. It is like a light bulb came on. I was just thinking about any kind of relationship. A love relationship would be a good one to apply these to though. Just throwing that out there. No matter the kind, there are three Cs that you have to do yourself as a individual. Those three Cs are: Chance, Challenges, and Change.
You take the chance. You take the chance of changing your life forever. You go right into whatever you have doubts about and scares you. You have questions but you take that chance anyways. Sometime when you take that chance. It will turn out to be the best thing you ever think of. You take that chance of giving up things to get another thing. You get the chance of someone's asking you all of these questions not knowing they will matter soon but yet those questions for you thinking and prepared for what was ahead. You take the chance in answering those questiins, hoping that you will do what you said you would when that chance comes. with those chances, you will have challenges.
You have the challenges. All kind of them. Some challenges you might understand right away and others you might not til later. The challenges could be easy or hard. They could be a fight that you have to work through or with me, my anxiety that I have to contorl. They could also be good like understanding why a person treats you the way they do or going onto the next step. The challenges could even be something like learning something about you or someone else or something else. I love challenges because you do keep learning and I love that because I am a teacher's kid. Those challenges might seem scary at first but everyone needs them or you would stay where you are in life forever.
You are changed. By taking that chance and going pass those challenges, you are becoming a changed person. I thought I was changed and done changing when I took a speical chance but come to figure out I wasn't even close to done. I might have been done changing if I was to stay by myself forever but that's not God's plan. Never was. I'm being changed everyday now. I'm learning new things and going through a lot of new challenges. I am seeing how storng I can really be, I guess. One thing I have learned so far is no one can change you for the better then the person who truly loves you and that you love back.
Call me crazy but I think the 3 Cs are a way of life. Chance, challenge and change. How else would you describe life? How else would you describe the feeling of love? How else would you describe a person changing better for a reason? You got to take that chance. With that chance, comes a lot of challenges. With those challenges, you have to change or you might not make it through some of them. If you never do these things, how will you know what to do to get through life?
Summary:
Step 1: Take the chance.
Step 2: Get through those challenges.
Step 3: Change because you took the chance and got through those challenges.
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